Jerry Dinnan

This morning I want to tell you about Jerry. I never got the chance to know him other than the volunteer work we did together at LifeLink, but that doesn't matter. You see, there is a special "kin-ship" between recipients and candidates for an organ transplant.

When I first met Jerry a few years ago we had volunteered to promote donor awareness in Sarasota. We both arrived wearing the same color Lifelink polo shirts and khaki pants as if we'd planned it. As the day progressed we discovered we lived a block away from each other! He was the light shining on the health fair. We joked, talked to others about becoming an organ donor, and wanted to hug all those who said they were already a donor.

The next time I saw Jerry was at a Donor Service of Remembrance held each November at the church he attends. Lifelink brought in donor families from the past/previous years for the donor and their families to be honored. It was at this service I realized deep inside how much I needed to thank a donor family and help some of these families understand how thankful all recipients are for what they have sacrificed.

This blog has taken me a few days to put together. Mainly because as a recipient I and many like me view all candidates & recipients as "family". We have scars, take the same meds, have the same side effects, etc. BUT mos of all we *strive to thrive* with all the daily obstacles, the medical obstacles, and honor our gift of life. When I hear of a candidate of recipient passing away, I not only grieve for the loss of their life and for their family. I grieve because a part of me goes with them. I know the daily struggle and strength each and everyone of us puts forth each second of every day to prove transplantation works. The loss is double. I've lost a friend, extended family member, and fellow kinsman who understands my thoughts without having to explain the medical aspects in detail. Or from the beginning.

Here is part of an email from Lifelink regarding Jerry.
You'll see why he is sorely missed.
I am very sad to inform you that LifeLink volunteer, Jerry Dinnan passed away last Thursday morning. For those of you who knew him you may recall, Jerry was a heart transplant recipient of nine years, was a passionate advocate for organ and tissue donation which few could rival. He was an active LifeLink volunteer, and led the good work of a support group - Transplant Recipients of Southwest Florida – in Ft. Myers. Jerry never turned down a chance to spread the important message of donation – and he touched countless lives by participating in every opportunity presented, including high school presentations, media interviews and other speaking opportunities.
Jerry was incredibly grateful for the gift of life he had been given by an organ donor, and he carried wonderful thoughts of his donor and donor family with him always. As a result, Jerry felt one of his most important roles was as facilitator of LifeLink Services of Remembrance, speaking from his heart to families from throughout West and Southwest Florida whose loved ones had become organ or tissue donors.
Even with his many responsibilities to the transplant community, Jerry found time to be an active member of his local church and a Hospice volunteer, ministering to families and individuals facing end of life issues. Jerry was a beloved husband to his wife, Debbie, for many years, and leaves behind four children, several grandchildren and many friends, who will all miss him dearly.

If you find a few spare minutes this Saturday morning (his services) please look up, smile and say hello to Jerry. He's earned his wings over and over...